I'm not sure if I could really articulate how incredible and
overwhelming this month was,
but...as a writer half the fun is in the
attempt. =P
So, let's start at the beginning...
I won't lie
and say that the month started on a high note, because it surely did
not. Not only was I reeling from being left to my own devices with my
Lola leaving in late July, but I was also suffering from intense
feelings of loneliness and homesickness because of VBS. Missing VBS was
incredibly devastating for me because it IS my favorite time of the
year. But God comforted me with the reassurance that He didn't send me
here to think about the things I was missing, but to experience the
things that I couldn't get back home. And man, do I praise God for his
unfailing love and omniscience because He has been revealing Himself
ten-times over this month.
For instance, if I had been in
California this month instead of Eastern Samar then I would have
completely missed out on the wonder that is Patron (pah-troh-n [haha
don't forget to roll your "r"]).
August
brought with it the Maydolong "Dolong Festival" which celebrates Saint
Rocque who was the first to bring religion to the town. Now, regardless
of the fact that the majority of Maydolong now is not Catholic, any
excuse to party is a good excuse.
For a good week and a half
before there were events every evening (3 of which I sang in) and August
15 was presentation day when all the schools and organizations first
marched in a parade throughout town and ended up in the plaza for
submission presentation. Four schools in all of Maydolong put together a
kind of field show to portray how Maydolong got it's name, ESSU being
one of them. So, prior to, classes were pretty much cancelled due to all
the preparation.
But man was it worth it:
you can check out all of the photos
here
But
let me just say, I've never seen so many colors. And the fact that so
many of my students, friends, and family were in the Fiesta parade and
presentation gave me a sense of pride that I think will always have no
matter where I go in life. I tend to get attached pretty quickly so I
really shouldn't be surprised how much love I have for the people that I
have come to meet and know here in Maydolong.
But anyway moving
on...August 15 and 16 was a day to wander from house to house for free
food. I can safely say that I was full for the two days that followed
(and I only went to one house) but it was more the companionship that I
found solace in. Which brings me to another reason why August was so
monumental:
You want to make friends, you fellowship with them.
Fiesta
was a reason to fellowship with an array of different people outside of
the formality of school and work. I got to meet and introduce myself
officially to a lot of my cousins' friends and even hang out with CYF in
a different type of setting. It was a good week and it continued to
build upon that foundation well into the following week.
Dinner with CYF
Snack in Lolo's Nipa Hut
Compassion Family Day
One
event that I have been super excited for since Kimberly, Joey, and I
became independent from Lolo and Lola was their birthday weekend.
Kimberly's birthday is August 24th and Joey's August 27th, which I found
out on a random evening when we were watching television.
This
year Kimberly's birthday was on a Friday and Joey's the following Monday
so, early on, I suggested we go do something. I love celebrating
birthdays and making a big deal out of them. It's what Ate Aarika does,
but I had a lot to learn about birthday traditions here in the P.I.
For
instance, the MAJOR difference between birthday celebrations here in
the Philippines and celebrations in the States is who throws the party.
Here,
if it's your birthday, you're the one to throw the party, prepare the
food, pay for everything, etc. etc. and giving presents is just not
done. The present is that people show up. This is why people don't
usually celebrate their birthday because they don't have the money to
fund something like that, so in the past the most either of them had
done was maybe have a few friends over for snack.
When Joey and
Kimberly explained this to me I was floored. "What?!
But...it'syourbirthday. Everyone else should be giving things to you,
not the other way around! Andwhywouldn't you celebrate? It's an
important day!" Haha it was pretty funny, but I relented. I figured,
even if they didn't feel comfortable in doing something I would do what I
do best and give them everything I could.
Of course when the days
came, they brought with them the reality of how much God has blessed
Kimberly and Joey with really loving and good friends. Friends who want
to celebrate them more than the two of them want to celebrate
themselves.
It just goes to show how humbleness, sincerity, and
generosity are rewarded by the Lord. God has revealed so many of His own
attributes through the two of them and I am constantly in awe over how
the Lord lives through them. I praise God so much for giving them each
another year to just be these beacons of light.
yeah. Gotta love 'em.
So,
for Kimberly's birthday many of her friends came to the house and they
cooked noodles and rice, brought drinks and snacks, and we made a day of
it eating the bakintol that Kimberly taught me to roll the night
before.
Her friends are all her batch mates: Criminology students that have, apparently, been wanting to get to know me for a while.
After
an initial awkwardness of not really knowing what to say to each other
we eventually fell into a comfortable banter. They tried their best to
speak English to me while I tried my best to use what Waray/Tagalog I
knew. Haha who knew that years of listening in on conversations back
home would serve me well here or that I was even paying that much
attention, but I surprised myself with how much Tagalog I actually do
know.
But
anyway, the language barrier has become more endearing than detrimental
and Kimberly has told me that her classmates think I'm very cute. Like a
chipmunk (they didn't actually say "Like a chipmunk" but I like to add
that part since it's my cheeks that seem to be cutesy to a lot of them).
Now,
I know that one day didn't completely eliminate the anxiety I tend to
give people inadvertently, but it was enough to ensure an enjoyable
Tuesday when I returned to school and felt like I had a stronger support
system through the difficult times.
For Joey there was more of a
hulabaloo over because 1. He's in ESSU-Chorale so his friends are
performers. 2. He shares a birthday with Kuya Raffy who is not shy about
wanting to celebrate his birthday either. And 3. President Benny Aquino
announced that we would commemorate National Heroes Day on Monday
August 27th instead of it's actual day:
Sunday, August 26th. That meant
no school, no work, party party party.
Haha, so Joey's birthday actually started at 4am Monday morning.
I
got a text message from one of my students, who also happens to be a
Chorale Member with Joey and Kimberly and I let them through the gate.
One of the traditions that I have come to deeply appreciate here in
Maydolong is the Serenading Tradition, usually done on someone's
birthday. I remember when I first came to Maydolong in 2006 my family
was serenaded outside of our house the morning after we arrived and for
Lolo's birthday CYF also serenaded Lolo in the morning.
This was
no different. The ESSU-Chorale came and proceeded to serenade Joey for
his birthday while Kimberly and I cooked breakfast. Spaghetti is the
only thing I know how to make (and the Philippines is well stocked in
Filipino spaghetti ingredients) so that's what we made. I praise God for
the foresight to cook more since the CYF showed up at about 5am to
serenade Joey also.
There were a lot of people in the house that morning.
CYF
then told us that they actually came over to cook for lunch since we
were all supposed to go to the beach to celebrate for Kuya Raffy and
Joey, but we sent them away and said to come back after everyone had
left.
Once they had, I amused myself by taking pictures of the boys work in the kitchen.
In
contrast to when Kimberly's friends came over and all the girls cooked
the food, for Joey's birthday all the boys did the cooking. I am
constantly amazed by the resourcefulness of Filipino teenagers in the
Province. The way that they are taught from a very young age to keep
house is unlike the US culture or even the culture of Filipino teenagers
in Metro Manila. It's an initiative that I know US grown kids don't
gain until past eighteen (sometimes never) and I am both fascinated and
convicted by their example.
After
all the preparation we loaded up a put-put and headed over to the beach
for a day of music, eating, and lots of picture taking.
For that celebration, and all the photos from this weekend, you can check the photos
here.
But
anyway, it was a good day with a lot of food, a lot of laughs, and a
LOT of pictures.
Talking it over with Joey, after everything was said
and done, even he couldn't believe all of the blessings given by his
friends. All the work, the food, the money that was donated for the work
and the food, 21 proved to have a good start to it and for Kimberly 19,
as well.
After the birthday celebrations things pretty much
returned to normal. We went back to school and things began to settle
down other than the fact that we have a Showcase Concert scheduled for
Sept. 7 so the practices for that began in full swing.
Lots of
evenings at church. Lots of dancing and singing. It's almost like being
home, only I'm in the youth instead of directing. (Can't say I don't
enjoy it)
But then of course the excitement couldn't be over.
August had done so well to shake up my perspective of life here that it
was only fitting that the world offer a physical representation of it.
August
31st, 2012 - Friday night, after choir practice Joey, Kimberly, and I
came back home with Roselle Ann (another cousin) and Brent (a friend
from church). We were just hanging out in the living room, watching Wil
Time Big Time, and then the house began to shake.
Now...there have
been quite a few earthquakes since I've been here. None that were
strong, most were just aftershocks from neighboring countries, so we've
made a habit of the Deer in the Headlights reaction when the house
begins to shake. But as the shaking persisted and then the electricity
flashed on and off the flight reaction took over and we bolted out of
the house, Kimberly and I out the back door, Joey, Roselle, and Brent
out the front.
The electricity gave out and we could feel the
Earth shaking beneath our feet. We had nowhere to go. In my mind I kept
thinking, "We really shouldn't be near this tree," but the quaking
didn't feel big enough to have to duck for cover, it just felt like any
other aftershock. The difference was the duration. It was long and
frightening all the same and once over we shuffled into the house to
make sure that everything was alright.
I don't think any of us knew how to react so...we just made jokes. "Well, I guess we're all sleeping in the living room."
The
humor was short lived as a ruckus could be heard outside and our gate
was thrust open. There was a lot of yelling in Waray, but what I could
understand was what people were yelling about, "The sea! The sea!"
The
earthquake had led to gigantic waves and it was enough to remind
everyone that we are on an island and a big earthquake could lead to a
tsunami. Again, no one knew how to react, especially us, a bunch of
sarcastic teenager to twenty-somethings so what did we do?
Continue to
make jokes.
A lot of the children were
frightened, crying and praying, crying and praying and I suddenly
remembered that people here have never felt earthquakes like that and
are also not privy to California desensitization towards natural
disasters. So, what did I do? I texted my family. I asked them to pray
for us so that we would be protected and that people would stay calm.
That
was of course before I realized the severity of the earthquake. Of
COURSE my family would be the first to go online and see what the
magnitude was. Even we didn't know that here in Maydolong, but 7.9 is
enough to shake up the whole world. Honestly, it didn't feel like a 7.9,
but we knew enough to stay on higher ground and open our house to our
family and friends who needed to a place on higher ground also.
We
made a night of it: Late night talks, pictures documenting our
makeshift slumber party, as well as more joking, "Don't go into town!
The town is empty!" (one of those 'you had to be there' moments.
Yes,
we all did not sleep well and yes we were stuck in a brown out
throughout the next day into the evening, but...I couldn't really
complain. It was the climactic end to a very exciting month and only
made me excited to see what the coming months had in store.
That
and...in all honesty I love brown out nights. Nights when there is no
electricity and so Joey, Kimberly, and I lay out together by
candlelight, hugging the tile floor in order to stay cool. We talk, we
joke, we listen to the sound of the "oh. another frog." haha (another
inside joke) and we fall asleep like that, completely at peace with the
world.
The Lord is so good. He provided so many
amazing things within the month of August and my only prayer is that the
coming months are just as full and eye-opening. I am in awe of His
provision and I never want that feeling to go away.
Lord you are good and your mercy endureth forever.
